Be careful what you promise your kids — you may have to follow through. When I was a young adult, my father told me that if I lost enough weight to fit into size 30 jeans, he would buy me a car. I got close, but never made it before he passed away. Someday, though, I will lose the weight and then I’ll visit my father’s grave and say “you owe me a car!” Of course, I realize that it would take a miracle to get him to pony up my new ride. For Dana Soderberg, on the other hand, all it took was a lawyer.